What do Psychologists Think about Sex Dolls

With the continuous development of sex dolls, they have gradually entered the public's attention through the special opportunity of the epidemic era. Are silicone dolls sex toys or humanoid companions? Can it emotionally replace real people? Does its existence have any effect on intimacy in reality? With these questions, we got in touch with some psychologists, hoping to get a correct view of sex dolls,including the most recent huge breasts sex doll.

We found a well-known Chinese sex education expert, psychologist Dong Li, to chat with him. He is one of the earliest experts in China who pay attention to sex toys. He mainly focuses on the research direction of human sexuality.

1. How to define a sex doll?

Silicone dolls are also called physical dolls and sex dolls. They are sex toys with a high degree of realism. Their main function is to provide sexual services. In the past, inflatable dolls were mentioned in many movies and reports. With the revolution of technology and the evolution of materials, there are now silicone dolls. People may need more sexual fantasies, such as visual and tactile stimulation, and psychological satisfaction, which leads to the demand for artificial human toys. Silicone dolls have a human form and are actually a derivative of sex toys. Simply treating silicone dolls as sex dolls is actually a bit one-sided. For users, there is a stigma about "sex dolls", as if he has dolls, he is a pervert. Users sometimes don’t have sex with it, but also eat and hug with it. Calling it a “sex doll”seems to be dirty. Users need to be more euphemistic and subtle. In fact, in my opinion, this view defines and understands sex too narrowly, and we need to lengthen the definition of sex.The invention of the 140-149cm sex doll sparked a lot of thought.

2. Is there any difference between sex dolls and other sex toys?

Users will have higher needs and requirements for sexual satisfaction, they will know what they want and take better care of their desires. Some people own sex dolls out of a desire for companionship and intimacy. Silicone dolls are a substitute and a satisfaction in real life. In fact, they are quite similar to the psychology of love, but they are more inclined to possess and control a person. He may be frustrated in real life, and it is difficult to establish a better realistic relationship, or some psychological needs cannot be satisfied in reality, so in a virtual world, this part of the fantasy is satisfied. Another feature of silicone dolls is that they can be manipulated and cannot be resisted. The owner has a control over the doll, which is a bit like a SM (sadistic) plot. Some people may not be able to express their desires with a real partner, and he gets satisfaction from the doll. Of course, there will also be users who have a mentality of "don't talk to me about sex, I think it's dirty, I just want to be beautiful". But in our opinion, sex is not dirty, whether you have sex or not, that is your choice.The best option is 160-169cm sex doll. Some users will wait for sex dolls as their girlfriends, wives, and wives, and may be emotionally satisfied to a certain extent. Dolls cannot replace real people, but they can achieve part of emotional satisfaction, mend pain, mend loss, and satisfy part of psychological desires.
There is feedback between people's real emotions, that is, I have feelings for you, and you have feelings for me. For a simulation doll, there is no way for it to feedback its emotions, or in other words, the emotional feedback is only imagined by the user.In real life, if you show affection to your family or friends, they will give you a certain amount of feedback, whether it is like or dislike, but dolls will never have such feedback. The emotions obtained from such feedback will inspire people, and people will react to these emotions. Although the things people imagine will bring people some pleasure and give themselves a certain psychological space to relax, they always exist in one's inner world, not the real feedback of the external world to you.The best option is torso sex doll.

3. Why do people still need to buy sex dolls when they have an intimate relationship?

True intimacy is mutual equality and self-awareness. On the one hand, silicone dolls also reflect the desire for control in sexual relations, and real people are more uncontrollable. Data surveys show that the vast majority of men still masturbate after marriage. When there is no way for you and your partner to negotiate sexually and emotionally, you need to find other ways to satisfy them. You never have to think about or discuss with a sex doll before you want to have sex with her. Because the sex doll is absolutely obedient to you, or what you say, she will never say no to you. So for real people, the doll is more controllable. This feeling will give the user a sense of pleasure.Now, male sex doll also occupy a certain market share.
Now many women's acceptance of sex dolls has gradually increased, and many women have also become customers of sex dolls. However, the use of sex dolls by women is still much lower than that of men. Usually women's emotions and emotions are more sensitive and complex. They will feel that emotions and sex are tied together, and they need someone to love them. It is difficult for silicone dolls to provide them with spiritual love. Men's sexual satisfaction is relatively simple and relatively straightforward. Of course, this is a personal choice, and it has something to do with the individual's cultural education and lifestyle. The outside world's views on the sex doll user group are also constantly changing. Since it is a group, others must form a certain stereotype of them. The whole social culture is in a state of unacceptable silicone dolls, and many people even think that this is a perversion. Silicone dolls are related to sex, belong to privacy, and meet people's needs for sex to a certain extent. There is a reasonable place for existence. If it does not affect the life and work of individuals, and does not harm the society, it is good to not interfere. If you have the ability, you should be more friendly, understanding, and supportive.